The Deployment Challenge






If you’ve read my blog before, you may have seen me talking about my cruise action-plan, which I am now calling the Navy Wife Cruise Challenge, and I am writing this special post to challenge you to join me.

In this blog, I write about those little experiences that make us Navy Wives feel crazy and ways for us to embrace those natural experiences and overcome them. Some of my posts have talked about the Hermit-Effect – that bizarre tendency to isolate yourself and never go out while he is gone; Deployment OCD – that need to check everything five times before you leave the house but only when he’s on deployment; and Port Madness – freaking out with worry and jealousy while he’s in port and feeling guilty for feeling worried and jealous while he is in port.

So what’s the cruise challenge? My husband is scheduled to go on a deployment soon. While he is gone, I plan to combat these cruise side-effects by forcing myself to get hobbies, stay in touch with friends, make an effort to go out at least every other weekend, pursue a major project (publish my first novel), not allow fears and anxieties get the best of me, and not put my life on pause waiting for him to come back.

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But I’m not the only wife with a cruise coming up or who is already dealing with cruise, so I’m challenging you to join the Navy Wives Cruise Challenge 2013. All you have to do is make an effort to get out of the house and fight back against those cruise side-effects that turn us into loons then come here and write about it. Post your plans, difficulties, and your successes in the comment section of this page or if you really enjoy writing, join me. Go to my guest blog page and find out how you can write a guest post for the Unhinged & Empowered Navy Wives blog. 

I and my readers would love to hear how you survive cruise, and I would especially love to see some experiences from Navy Wives with children since I don’t have any yet and can’t share that side of the cruise experience.

I don't care what it is you do. Start playing softball, run a marathon, travel, learn how to ride a horse, learn how to play the guitar, star fire dancing, take a painting class, go to one of those zombie walks, anything that you have always wanted to do but don't usually have time for, or thought it wouldn't be fun without him, and especially anything you have never done specifically because you're in cruise mode. It might be as simple as going to a fair or a wine tasting without him. Start planning now and share your plans in the comment section. It will keep you accountable.

Really challenge yourself though to get out there and do something fun during this cruise. I can’t wait to see the adventures we get into! 

I’ll be reporting my experiences regularly, and I hope to start reading other's experiences soon.

DISCUSSION: Comment below to tell us what your doing for the challenge.

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